BBFs Till The Weekend!

Real friends are hard to find. They are like a precious stone in the middle of the ocean that when found must be treasured and taken care of. Some people don’t know how to keep long lasting friendships. As hard as we may try to keep that friendship going it just needs two people to succeed and if that is not the case then it will go to faliure. True friendship is a powerful love.

This kind of love is sisterly or brotherly. It helps when needed, listens when has to, and has an urgent need to have at least some time to spend together. You can call it a relationship! Some people give up on their friends to be with men and as good as the friendship was, the friendship has broken up.

A true friend will always be there. Not always say the right things, but just to help with thei presence. In my opinion, the most important thing about friendship is to feel that you are not alone. Couples give each other support, however, there is nothing more comforting than crying on a friend’s shoulder, crying to a person that you have no secrets with.

Unfortunately, people don’t realize how important friendship is. They don’t understand that sometimes that empty space might be filled by a bff. People think that a few moments of convenience and then ride off to there regular life forgetting about their bff. People just remember a true friend will not forget when away, but miss you and keep up with you and your friendship.

Break up Town!

Getting over a broken heart is the first step in a woman’s life to test her dignity, self esteem and ability to solve her own problems. Knowing when to give up on a relationship and understanding that it went for the best are difficult lessons to learn. In the beginning there is denial and the potential urge to act like a psycho and go into the man’s voicemails, emails, internet sites etc. Then there is anger and we use our fingers to point at him or youself for blame. Then comes saddness. A saddness that with distractions can be covered, but when embraced can be the strongest emotion you have ever felt and this saddness if not controlled can be capable of destroying you completely.

A little later will come acceptance. Your inspiration to have a life comes back and you realize that everything that happened were only stops on a train that led to break up town. Break up town is a lonely but life changing town. A town were mistakes are realized, preferences are changed, and decisions about new habits are made.

In a world were everyone knows anyone and anyone knows everyone’s business. How do you avoid that man’s new news on girlfriends, where he’s going to be etc? How do you find a place to “not care?” How do you mend a broken heart for good?

New Year’s Forgiveness

As the new year has started we try to fulfill our latest resolutions and we commence by having a clear mindset. We think of finding true love and forgiveness and making life a little bit better with every new step we take. Forgiveness is such a delicate thing that it can’t be given in any moment and the words “I’m Sorry” seem to not mean as much as you would’ve wished they would. Giving forgiveness to someone who has broken your heart is probably the hardest obstacle a person may face. Forgiving and actually forgetting makes this obstacle almost impossible.

Why is love such a maze that we die over the person that hurts us the most while the person that was willing to give us the world is so insignificant? Are we crazy or do we want what we can’t have? Can we actually forgive and forget someone you love more than yourself? Can we actually forgive someone who has broken you down?