Getting over a broken heart is the first step in a woman’s life to test her dignity, self esteem and ability to solve her own problems. Knowing when to give up on a relationship and understanding that it went for the best are difficult lessons to learn. In the beginning there is denial and the potential urge to act like a psycho and go into the man’s voicemails, emails, internet sites etc. Then there is anger and we use our fingers to point at him or youself for blame. Then comes saddness. A saddness that with distractions can be covered, but when embraced can be the strongest emotion you have ever felt and this saddness if not controlled can be capable of destroying you completely.
A little later will come acceptance. Your inspiration to have a life comes back and you realize that everything that happened were only stops on a train that led to break up town. Break up town is a lonely but life changing town. A town were mistakes are realized, preferences are changed, and decisions about new habits are made.
In a world were everyone knows anyone and anyone knows everyone’s business. How do you avoid that man’s new news on girlfriends, where he’s going to be etc? How do you find a place to “not care?” How do you mend a broken heart for good?
