In a work enviornment, everyone is supposed to remain neutral. Neutral meaning friendly at a professional level. Then all of a sudden you begin treating someone who seems nice. As time progresses you see a littl emore of each other and you develop butterflies everytime you see your co-worker.
Is it okay to flirt unconciously? Is it okay to talk about sexual factors just as an “interesting adult conversation?” What do you do when you have a worker’s crush?
Relationships are about working things out, negotiating but most of all they are about making up at the end of the day and feeling fulfilled with the person you are with. There are bound to be a few fights between you and the person you spend the most time with.
But how do you know that its not that and just something that will never change. Should everyone believe in fairy tales and believe that their spouse will one day magically change after a week/month long lesson? Is that romance or blindness?
Relationships are about compromising, negotiating and communication. When you have a relationship that is all about negotiating and communication, but not about sex, what do you do? Sex is like the ultimate grain in a relationship, it is as important as being faithful, loving, caring and even being in love.
What is more important to maintain the relationship or to be happy in the relationship? Are people hiding what they feel about sex just to maintain the peace with their “soul mate?” Is it fair for spouses to get a negative answer to the sexy question: Baby can we have sex tonight?
