New Year’s Forgiveness

As the new year has started we try to fulfill our latest resolutions and we commence by having a clear mindset. We think of finding true love and forgiveness and making life a little bit better with every new step we take. Forgiveness is such a delicate thing that it can’t be given in any moment and the words “I’m Sorry” seem to not mean as much as you would’ve wished they would. Giving forgiveness to someone who has broken your heart is probably the hardest obstacle a person may face. Forgiving and actually forgetting makes this obstacle almost impossible.

Why is love such a maze that we die over the person that hurts us the most while the person that was willing to give us the world is so insignificant? Are we crazy or do we want what we can’t have? Can we actually forgive and forget someone you love more than yourself? Can we actually forgive someone who has broken you down?

Merry Christmas to ME!

Christmas is the time of year to celebrate and rejoice. Men usually use this time of year to eat in their homes and women tend to ask for what ever they please. Have all the food, gifts and parties out-shined the real meaning of Christmas? Has everyone forgotten why it is that this holiday exists?

While men take this time to stuff their faces at homes and women take it to ask and they shall receive they arrive at bars or clubs on Christmas Eve and come out on Christmas morning having no special memories and no warm feelings about family or love. All they have to end up with is drunken actions with a few good words with the stranger next door.

Why have we men and women become so shallow? What has happen to our feeling of Christmas? When we were kids we loved not only the food and toys, but the feeling of family and playing with other cousins, but today, we have  these insignificant parties that we probably will not remember the next day due to the alcohol. What have we become? Are we avoiding the true meaning of Christmas or have we just forgotten it?

Are you my daddy?

It’s difficult to understand what’s really good for you. Life can be confusing and difficult and it can throw surprises at you that you might not be ready for you. Sometimes people can come into your lives and change you completly while others that are already in your life might wish you the worst.

Family is the hardest thing to let go of, but when they are just bringing you down on your destiny, you have to learn how to let go. It is tradition that males are closer to their mothers and that females are closer to their dads. Now my question is what happens when there is no father figure for the females and no mother figure for the males?

Is it true that they last their entire lives looking for that missing space making their love lives complicated and painful? How do you learn how to let go something that you feel you need and that is so natural to you? How do you know which person is the correct one for you, not because they fill that empty space of parenthood, but because they are your other half?

Love Malady

He was her universe, she was his blood
A feeling like no other, a fire like the sun
An affection so addicting, more exciting than New York
The most passionate lovers, they feel alone and remote
His love was a fatal disease, she was the only cure
To adore someone so much, to always be so sure
It was the best feeling, the most infuriating too
He was her air, she openly knew
He was her beloved; she was his time to pass
This love was real, it was good to last
Inamorata was her title, he was known as paramour
They were always meant to be, since the day each was born

Crush

Have any women ever had a secret affair? When I say secret affair I mean having some type of a relationship with  a person you’re not sopposed to be seeing. Whether it be your boss, your teacher, a school administrator or your father’s friend, it is one of the most terrifiying and exciting times of your life!

When you have a crush on someone you’re not soppose to and things happen to work out, how do you stop this relationship? Many women like the thrill of “doing something wrong” and many men just like the thrill of “doing IT!” It is no wonder that while you enjoy the affair worries may come up in your head because in these situations the person you’re seeing is older. So many doubts fill you’re mind mixed in with unrealistic thoughts of a future that it ruins the ability for a woman to grab control of the situation.

Questions fill your mind and take over you as you become an emotional mess. So ladies and gents, how do we control these situations? Do we come out with it and tell the world and if that’s an option how do we confess to that special someone that (at least for you) things are serious?

Playing His Fields

Have you ever dated a man you weren’t sure you were attracted to? Men usually try to impress women so that they may set off a good first glimpse. Usually after the first night together women start to actually think about how they feel about a man. They think if they are just attracted to him, do they really truly like him, have things gone to fast or the common is this my rebound guy. It is so difficult for women to actually know what they are feeling when sex comes into the play.

Some women solve their problem by not having any more sex, others solve it by having more sex and there are your occasional women that get scared and never speak to the poor man again. The ones that are still in this so called “relationship” go crazy trying to figure out what this relationship is and actually do things so that the man will like her more.

Even if they are not completely attracted to the man, she will in fact play his fields and be the “perfect woman.” Why do we do this? Is this insecurity? Immaturity? Wasting a man’s time like that just so we can have our own time to pick up our pieces and not letting him know what’s going on. Although men are more known for doing these things, men usually tend to be more straight forward.

So my question for today is, what is it that makes us go crazy trying to make a man that we don’t care about like us more? Why must we still play with minds when we plead and beg on a daily basis to not be played with ours? Are we cynical or punks?

Shoulda Coulda Woulda!

Not knowing where you want to be is a serious subject among many women… All you really know is that there is something missing! I have this friend named Britney, she messed up a lot in her passed with men. She feels it is now time to straighten up her life. She tries to find someone that will fill up her emptiness, but there was no luck. Although there are great loads of people out there, why do we date them and still not give them a chance? Are we that unfortunate that we have to be scared of feelings when they have not even crept up on us yet? Sometimes we wonder what it would have been like if we would have done things different, for example, if we would have stayed with our high school boyfriend and had a kid, or if we did not have that kid. How will we ever know if we made the correct choice? Are we women just a home for all the stupid bodily emotions that a human being can have and men ignore? Men do not go through nearly half of the life revealing situations that women do so does that make us weak or more alive.How do we fill up that void inside of us? Are we supposed to feel this way? In addition, if we are, why we push ourselves to dating when in fact, we are not ready to do it and we only do it because we feel alone. It would be great if we would open ourselves up to new loves. Are we stuck in the past or is it just plain old fear from our past? Moreover, if we are stuck in the past or afraid of it, how do we move on and live our lives peacefully?